Danny95 Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 I'm writing this, kind of to vent but also to see how many others have dealt with this. There aren't too many websites where we all post, and I've dipped my feet into the waters of them all- and in every, single forum there's a few dozen absolute weirdos that always end up chasing me away. I've given up on trying to meet people with this kink, a lot of the decision came because of this subsection. It's not worth trudging through the harassment any more. Nobody is interested in enjoying the experience, everyone just wants nudes to save. This group of people isn't everybody that I've talked to, and i sincerely miss some of the connections I've made with other guys- but between the terminally shy, underage, computer-illiterate, or just plain WEIRD people I've run across they are the first ones to drool over anything you post. I don't want to log into insta and see a random old man penis with no profile pic and no posts. And of course they're either blank profiles, or pictures re-uploaded from google images or pics of other men that they screenshot and post for themselves. God forbid you post a face shot, because that's pretty much an immediate bet you're about to be recorded and stored on some lonely virgins hard drive to jack off to forever. I'm gay, I can't imagine what the women deal with around here, you have my deep sympathy because I imagine you get it worse than I do. (did). Fuck, I even see it on here. Not directed at me, but I still see it. Everyone is inherently distrustworthy of new contacts because they don't know if you're a real person, or one of these bizarre people. I get it, it's a niche fetish, but the fact that you post one picture, one selfie, anything- even SFW- a horde of downright bizarre people are suddenly in the DM's with eggplant emojis, unsolicited dick pics, asking to "worship" me or me to worship in some dom/sub dynamic, asking me to ""donate"" furs to them, or even a few posts below asking to join her onlyfans to sap money from these sad people. I get this isn't like a dating scene, but some common respect for one another goes a long way. I can understand why our community continues to fragment, but while these people are so obsessed with new content and driven by their throbbing cock I don't see it getting any better. There were some beautiful men that developed a real connection with that I lost contact with since they just stopped posting because of these people. if you made it this far thanks for reading. I started to ramble a bit. I guess I'm just reaching out to hear from other sane people for some reassurance that you're still out there and if this is unacceptable to you, or I'm just being a bitch. 5 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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